Tuesday Thoughts And How To Be Unhappy
Hi my Friend, What did you implement last week? Did you use one of the questions to deepen a relationship? Any relationship? I dare you to try it ;) You might be surprised by my topic today, but sometimes, to make a point, you have to paint the picture in a different way. So stay with me. "Lisa is doing really well.” "Thomas accomplished so much more already.” "Michelle has her act together, and I don't.” What you don't see: Lisa, Thomas and Michelle have the same fears, worries and challenges as you do. Do you sometimes compare yourself to others? I am the last one to judge you on that, because we all do that. But I know you don't want to be like everyone else. You wouldn’t be reading this if that were the case. You want to grow. So you need to stop with this habit. You cannot compare your beginning to someone's half point. You have to make the decision to let go of those thoughts and focus on yourself again. A friend of mine who I had helped in the past, did just that for me today. Cause honestly, sometimes I don't see the forest for the trees. She got me right out of that stuck mindset and reframed the whole situation. Well done, my friend. The only one you can compare yourself with is ....YOU. Unless you want to be unhappy. Then continue and add these to your to do list:
Compare yourself to others and be very envious.
Be unthankful and don't see the small things.
Invest in perishable things and not in self development and growth.
Focus on temporary fun to numb your pain.
Forget about the relationship to yourself.
Success starts with sitting and consuming; forget about implementing.
Why leave the comfort zone? It’s so cozy.
Watch tons of TV and don't experience things for yourself.
You already see that if you want to live a life that you are proud of, then do the exact opposite. It all starts with one step. Just one. One decision. And then one step in front of the other. You can do this.
Two humans are completely different from each other; comparing them is like insulting nature. Nitin Namdeo
PS: If you need help to stop some old habits, please write to me for a free consult.
You are loved. Deeply loved. Loved beyond measure.
Until next time, Isabelle
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