Hi Friends, What did you implement last week? Why in the world would I say, "Listen to the negative voice in your head????" I literally just googled to find an image for this blog and 99% of the images were along these lines:
stop the negative voices
that negative voice is a lie
how to silence the voice
and so on.
If you have followed me for a while, you know I'm all about reframing and feeling better and moving forward. See last week's blog.
I will get there.
Let's just be honest! We can't switch that voice off.
I've tried unwiring and rewiring.
And it's still there.
Does that mean we are insecure? Or not doing this right?
What if that negative voice came from a trusted friend? Would your walls go up to protect yourself?
Instead of the negative voice holding you back, ask yourself this:
"What is it telling me?"
"What am I feeling?"
"Why am I feeling this?"
Listen in below where I share an example of how to deal with business jealousy from woman to woman.
I would never advise you to feel jealous and tear somebody down. Or even tear yourself down. Never. I am advising that it's ok for you to be jealous and to use it as fuel to get better. Make sense? To summarize: Don't negate the negative voice. Listen in. Use it productively. It's possible.
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Until next time,
Isabelle
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