Tuesday Thoughts And Two incredible women

Hi Friends,

I trust you found the story of Julia Child inspiring, as part of women's history month. I want to continue the theme with two incredible ladies that you have probably never heard of.

Trailblazers on the Colorado River: The Untold Grit of Elzada Clover and Lois Jotter

In 1938, botanists Elzada Clover and Lois Jotter defied both nature and societal expectations when they became the first women to successfully navigate the Colorado River through the Grand Canyon. As botanists, their mission was scientific—to document the plant life of this untamed wilderness before the construction of the Glen Canyon Dam altered the landscape forever. But beyond their groundbreaking research, their journey was a testament to courage, determination, and the quiet strength of women who refused to be limited by the roles assigned to them.

Despite their expertise and the perilous nature of the expedition, Clover and Jotter were expected to adhere to the traditional gender roles of the time. The male members of the team anticipated that the women would prepare all the meals during the journey, reflecting the deeply ingrained societal norms of the era. This expectation underscores the additional challenges they faced, balancing rigorous scientific work with domestic duties imposed upon them.

Their story, as detailed in Melissa L. Sevigny's book, Brave the Wild River, highlights their resilience and determination. Sevigny paints a vivid picture of how, despite skepticism and criticism from journalists and the public, Clover and Jotter meticulously cataloged plant species, providing invaluable insights into the Grand Canyon's ecosystem. Their contributions were not just scientific; they blazed a trail for future generations of women in science and exploration, proving that women could thrive in spaces traditionally dominated by men.

Their journey mirrors the struggles many women face today. How often do we find ourselves pushing boundaries, breaking barriers, and doing the hard work—while also carrying the weight of expectations we never agreed to? Women today may not be rafting down the Colorado River with plant samples in hand, but they are navigating careers, relationships, family dynamics, and personal growth in a world that still tries to dictate what they should or shouldn’t do.

Reflecting on their journey prompts us to consider our own lives. Clover and Jotter's story encourages us to recognize and challenge these limitations. As we honor Women's Month, it's an opportune moment to ask ourselves: What story should be told about you that hasn't been told yet? Embracing and sharing our untold stories can inspire others and drive meaningful change.

For a deeper insight into their remarkable expedition, you might find this video insightful:

Resilient Female Botanists Challenge the Untamed Colorado River

Note: The video link is provided for educational purposes and to offer a visual recounting of Clover and Jotter's journey.

What chapter will you write next? It is so important to not only be inspired by other women, but also to be the woman who inspires others!

1.) Reflect for a moment on where you have shown resilience in your life? Honestly, resilience only comes after much falling down and getting up again. So you can't be resilient without having been through some tough times.

2.) Also, reflect on where you have shown courage as I am sure there are many times that you were not acutely aware of. the courage you displayed. For moms, every time you decided to carry a little human inside of you and give birth, that showed great courage. Not to mention, the many times a mom needs to show courage in the every day life of raising kids. For example, instances at the playground. speaking up for them when they are too little to speak for themselves, having an uncomfortable but necessary conversation with them, oh, and teaching them to drive!

3.) Reflect on a time when you were determined to start and finish a difficult project! I know there were many in your life. Which one comes to mind? And, I'm sure there were many more.

Here is a conversation you might have had with yourself:“Why do I always doubt myself when it comes to taking a leap? I know I have the strength, the passion... but why does it feel so hard to just go for it?”

“Because stepping into the unknown is always scary. But think about all the times you’ve pushed through. You’ve been courageous before, you’ve been determined... you’ve made it through harder things than this. Why not now?”

“I guess, but what if I fail? What if I don’t live up to the expectations I have for myself?”

“What if you do? What if this is the moment that defines the next chapter of your life? You’re resilient, and resilience is built on moments just like this—where you choose to move forward, even when you’re unsure. You’ve always found a way through.”

“True. I have bounced back from so much. I’ve learned to rise. But still, can I really handle what’s ahead?”

“Yes, you can. You’ve handled every challenge that’s come your way—this is just the next one. You’ve got this. Courage doesn’t mean the absence of fear; it means taking the step anyway. The world needs you to be as brave as you are.”

“You’re right. Time to stop holding back. I’ve got the courage, the determination, and the resilience. It’s my time.”

I would love to be that voice for you ;) until you have learned and internalized it for yourself. I also created a private FB group for you where you can feel safe and be encouraged to write your new chapter in midlife; especially, if you are in or post-divorce, experiencing empty nest or just wondering "who am I"

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